Communication Tips For The Family
Hearing loss impacts not only those who suffer with it, but also the family. There are a number of things family and friends can do to help.
- Be patient. Hearing loss is as frustrating for the person with hearing loss as it is for those who are trying to communicate with him or her.
- Accept reality. In most cases, the hearing loss isn't going away. It will require changes in how communication takes place.
- Speak slower. How fast a person talks will have more impact on understanding than the loudness of the voice.
- Don't shout. It doesn't help, and may make it worse to shout, particularly if your loved one wears hearing aids. Learn to speak distinctly.
- Don't fight background noise. If the TV is on, it is very unlikely the hearing impaired person will "hear" what you are saying. Turn down the TV or radio. Turn off the running water. If you decrease the competing interfering noise, communication will be better.
- Face the person. Never talk with your back to people with hearing loss. Facing the person helps not only with visual cues but also because the sound is directed toward them.
- Don't walk away. Don't start talking and then walk away. The person will only hear the first part when you are facing him or her.
- Get the person's attention before you start talking. Say their first name or "Dear," "Sweetheart" or something else to get their attention. Once you have their attention, then say the rest.
- Don't get angry with the person with a hearing loss – it is not always his/her fault. You may need to repeat yourself.
- Be supportive. Find ways to help your loved one. Encourage him/her to seek professional help if there are problems or questions.